With time and technique being critical to success, we will show you how to help your children to leave diapers behind.
Timing is everything
Statistics show potty training is the first thing that most mothers feel competitive and the more mothers dread process.
"I've been trying to potty train my son since he was two years old," says mother Lisa Ramsay.
"It's been six months and we are no closer. I feel completely defeated by him.
Thus, it can help to know that the key is not the age, but the signs of readiness.
Child Psychologist Emma Kenny, who wrote about potty training says: "Some children are ready in two, but the others are not even two-thirty or later - which is why it is essential to understand the messages that your child is giving you. '
Ask yourself the following.
- Your child is asking you to take wet diapers or using the toilet?
- Your child stay dry for two hours or more?
- You can tell when your child needs a bowel movement or little?
- They are interested in using pull-ups or underwear?
- Preparation for potty training
Like any new venture, preparing the child for what will happen, will facilitate the training.
If you are going to use a chamber pot (and not everyone does) let your child pick one out. At the same time, consider buying a small step (useful for the boys when standing) and a seat training, which fits on top of your regular toilet seat.
Clothing and / or pull-ups are also essential, partly because when your first child recognizes that he / she needs a bit will only have a limited time to do them in a potty / toilet. "Think about what your children are using a lot," says Natalie Holloway's mother. "With my children I quickly discovered that putting them in trousers helped because it was easier not to mess with buttons when they needed a quick little.
Before starting the process, take your child with you when you use the bathroom, and let them see that it is a normal thing.
Starting potty training
- Choose a time when you do not have something going on, as a new arrival or departure baby nursery. The less stressful you make the smoothest initial process will be.
- The day you get, tell your child that you will be doing and focusing on consistency, calm and praise.
Consistency: at regular intervals, take your child to the toilet or potty and create a routine.
Calm: If accidents happen, do not get cross, never just say mind and keep encouraging the use of the potty.
Praise: along the way, give lots of praise and encouragement.
Keep the process going
As the training progresses, slow down reminders and let your child starts saying.
When you are out, consider using a star map for encouragement.
Whatever you do, resist the return to diapers. Keep in mind the complete potty training can easily take a few months, but some will be smaller and a little more.
Toilet Training Night-time
Day time Secura will happen before the dry weather the night for the simple reason that it may take a while for the bladder to send strong signals enough to wake your child.
So the key here is patience.
"Resist implementing things like without drinks before bedtime," says Emma Kenny.
'Night Secura time is largely a matter of psychological maturity. Take the child to the bathroom during sleep is also useless. All you are doing is "teach" your little child in your sleep!
Boys against girls
Some evidence suggests that boys take longer to train, but this tends to be due to the fact that for boys, training is a two-stage process.
"First, the boys have to learn to sit to pee on the potty and then secondly to get up," says Emma Kenny.
Research suggests that most girls are fully trained for three years and boys of three years and two months.
Potty Training Problems
In many cases, obstacles arise.
"My daughter will not crap on the potty or toilet. It's almost as if she was terrified. I do not know where I'm going wrong," says Fiona Roberts, mother of two-and-a-half years Sienna.
Not having bowel movements in the potty is a common problem that can quickly turn into a major power struggle.
If your child will not verify that it is not constipated. If this is not the case, persevere.
- With some children it takes too long.
- What not to do
- Do not force the potty training your child - it will backfire. Potty training, such as weaning and walking, is a development stage, so go slowly.
- Do not take your stress on your child if they are unable to stay dry, is not their fault.
- Praise not punish when it comes to potty training.
- Do not force the child to sit on the potty, no one can shit on demand.
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